Sex , Lust , fantasy and the miniscule Indian mind.

If the title is not self explanatory you may pack your bags and go back to lalaland:P Now neha dhupia must have said it just for the publiicity she manages to grab. And hundred others have talked about sex lust blah blah blah blah.

Indan mind is like an open box of choclates on the road. Everyone wants to bite and everyone will think" ooh is he looking how many i have took??". And then when you enjoy the chocalte you tell yoursef"Is this a sin??" and then you pat yourself" We are the land of kama sutra" ( which you would have seen in some italian documentary which is sometimes before a yash raj film ) and then you say " il read the scriptures someday. That freakin baba ismaking millions form what my grnadmom taught me" and then youll forget about it cause "Slumdog milionaire " was decent nd ur busy woneing how it won the oscar??

Hmm so much for the miniscule yet deviating indian mind? Now mind you miniscule is not derogatory..It just mean stuborneddness to believ something else. Mind you Indians are an intelligent and a socially sharp tribe. A melange of all the perfect thngs added with a tinge of " I wont let you rise me till i get smething in return" that has managed to complicate the entire species if i may call it.

Ok coming back to SEX! how taboo is it? its easier to talk about nazi holocaust camps in a family watching tv than talk about a condom. Indians shy away from talking anything related to SEX.Mind the Capslock:)

Lust fantasy is just another feeling like greed passion. No one in this world has a right to categorise hem into any category. Now a lustful man could as well  einvolved in varoius socially reposnsible activities. Something an Indian mind will never accept totally. Again the Indian hat i am i shal reclarify.:) ( Read habit no 2 ) im talking about vast majority of indians irrespective of their education. ducations is a bookish degree. How else can you explain how an IIT IIM Grad will ask for a 10 crore dowry without batting an eyelid and how the girls father shall be gleefully waiting for an opportunity like that??? Excuse me!!

Well we are like that.Well crib and cry at different things but will still cater to the blind rule lest the fury of god reign upon us! What about the fur of kama sutra?

Now coming back to sex before you start complaining about my so called deviation;Indians like any other species love having sex. Mkaing it a taboo seems to arouse their curosity more. Somewhere down the line in our history sex became a matter of shame and disgust. A process only for childbirth. and somewhere marriage and sex became related. So form then sex was hush silent shhh behind curtains in hidden corridiors ; hiding from the wrath of god.....now if it was something sinful why on earth would that be the only way for child birth???

India is the land of unspoken words. inhibited emotions and neglected feelings. we push unexplaianable things down the carpet and out iton gods responsibility to bail out. we do not acknowledge our own feelings with an open mind forget others.we stick by rules of havng children in 2 yaers of marriage ( else people will think of impotency! ) putting them in betss chools sending them to camps, fussing on their report cards, making them enginners doctors mba's.

Are these their own dreams or their childrens? Do frustrations of a closed system reflect on daily decisions?

there are many issues to be adressed to. Sex is minisicule. A tip on the iceberg.

lets get rid of satu devadasi caste untouchablity female infantiscide red tape babugiri nd then lets have sex:)